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How to get married: a simple step-by-step guide

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Whether you want a courthouse ceremony or a big celebration, getting married follows the same core steps. Here's the simple version, from license to 'I do'.

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What to know

Get your marriage license from the local clerk in time
Choose an officiant and any required witnesses
Say your vows, sign, and file the certificate

The core steps to getting married

Whether you want a courthouse ceremony or a big celebration, the legal path is the same. Handle the paperwork first, then the ceremony, then the filing.

Apply for a marriage license at your local clerk's office
Choose an officiant who can legally marry you
Hold the ceremony with any required witnesses
Sign the license and have it filed to receive your certificate

Courthouse vs. a full wedding

A courthouse or elopement covers the legal essentials quickly and cheaply. A traditional wedding adds the venue, guests, and celebration — both are equally valid ways to be married.

Courthouse: fast, low-cost, minimal guests
Traditional: venue, guest list, vendors, and a reception
Either way, the license and signed certificate make it official

Frequently asked questions

What's the fastest way to get legally married?

A courthouse ceremony. Once you have a valid marriage license (and any waiting period has passed), an authorized officiant can marry you in minutes.

How much does it cost to get married at a courthouse?

Usually just the marriage license fee plus a small ceremony fee — often under $150 total, depending on your location.

Do we need witnesses to get married?

Many places require one or two witnesses to sign the license. Check your local rules before the ceremony.

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